Aromatherapy to increase sexual desire September 18, 2009

As aromatherapy enhances sexuality

Experts have tested the effects of aromatherapy to improve health and the beneficial influence they have on the emotions and moods, but little is spoken of using aromatherapy to enhance sexuality. We know that smell is one of the senses that has great influence in deciding who attracts us, this happens because the substances emanating from persons entering the nose and into the brain that are perceived as unattractive or objectionable.

Aromatherapy scents that have to be perceived by smell, making the brain sends signals thus achieving planceteras encourage excitement. Essential oils help increase sexual desire either by placing scented candles in the room, adding just a little to your bath or doing each other a massage with a cream to the previously added a few drops of essential oil chosen.

Essential oils that increase the desire
Essential oils that cause more effects to enhance sex drive are:
* Ylang-Ylang
* Black pepper
* Sandalwood
* Benzoin
* Jazmin
* Rosa
* Vanilla
* Geranium
* Orange
* Neo
To enhance the Aromatherapy you can allow the various oils mixture, never more than three, to find a formula that works best for each couple.

Sex toys: functionality and eroticism go together September 8, 2009

To improve health
According to a recent study, sex toys bring concrete benefits to physical and emotional health. According to specialists in sex toys, they have already crossed the border of pleasure, to focus on health benefit of customers. More products are being marketed now fulfill a dual function: to increase the enjoyment and advantages as amatory and correct some health problems for both men and women. “There are elements that facilitate the strengthening of the pelvic area. Help control stress and strain of the muscles involved in sexual intercourse. Ejaculatory control is vital in the sexual relationship and there are toys that allow you to run different tables of ejaculatory control, “says a famous Spanish owner of a sex store.
Serves healthy
Chinese Smart balls are specially designed to strengthen the vaginal muscles. “Strengthening the pelvic floor is a necessity for many women, especially those who have had children.”A well-toned pelvic helps achieve more intense orgasms and followed, helps to better control the bowel and increased recovery in childbirth,” says the sex experts.

According to an American study on sexual health, nearly half of women aged between 18 and 55 who used a vibrator in the investigation said to have a higher libido than those not using it. Those experienced with the product had a much greater sexual interest, orgasm more easily and tended to a higher quality of sexual life. Those with mild dysfunction were able to repair with the use of this toy.

Sex toys are used as therapy by sex experts. There are situations that may be prescribed to see how they work in pairs. In many cases they are able to solve the problems of anorgasmia, sexual apathy and premature ejaculation.

In the case of vibrators, they can be recommended for women with pain disorders such as vaginismus or dyspareunia. Patients can begin with this treatment by slowly starting with clitoral stimulation and go smoothly introducing the product to not feel pain. Its use is also advisable for women who have difficulty reaching orgasm. It is recommended by sexologists that these women should test the areas most encouraging, various positions, speeds and rhythms to improve the sexual health.

The end of sex toys to treat a sexual health problem is different, but can also be combined for pleasurable use. Not all those who consult a health problem are willing to listen to such treatment as advised sexual product. In the case of women, especially those above forty, have prejudices and obstacles and embarrassed when a consultation is recommended to try a treatment of this style, but they must understand that it is a measure to improve naturally, without resorting to drugs or inappropriate psychological therapy for minor sexual problems that can worsen over time without need.
Tips:
Consult a sexology specialist if you are experiencing any sexual problem and raise the possibility of a product that can naturally reduce or eliminate symptoms.

If yes, turn to a specialty shop. You must be very careful with homemade sex toys because they may cause allergies and infections.

The oils are also a good option to relax muscles and tension. Massage external erogenous zones is a good alternative to benefit the relationship and alleviate physical symptoms.

14 Most Common Questions about Sex August 24, 2009

Today there are still some myths about sexuality which should be necessarily eradicated.

There are lots of questions about sex related to pregnancy and sexuality but here we have collected the most frequent and here are the answers:

1. At least not carried out sex with vaginal penetration, there is always risk of pregnancy if not used methods of contraception.

2. Without adequate protection, although vaginal penetration is not deep, there is always risk of pregnancy.

3. Many sexual activities carry no risk of pregnancy, so no special precautions are needed: the touching, kissing, mutual masturbation with or without clothes, or having oral sex. However for oral sex to keep in mind that there is risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

4. Through penetration, vaginal and anal sex can spread disease.

5. Masturbation does not harm health or diminish sexual potency.

6. The irregular menses may be due to many factors, physical and psychological, but not masturbation.

7. During menstruation sex may be taken but we suggest the use of contraceptive methods, such as the condom, which prevents the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. Also unusually bleeding may occur that do not correspond with menstruation and have unprotected risk of pregnancy.

8. The exact day of ovulation may vary from one cycle to another is therefore not advisable to follow methods such as calendar, also called the rhythm method or rhythm. It’s more reliable to have sex with contraceptive protection if you want to prevent unwanted pregnancies.

9. Anal penetrations have no risk of pregnancy, but disease transmission.

10. To practice anal intercourse is necessary to lubricate the whole of the area and avoid that which becomes inflamed anus.

11. Having sex is possible to feel a swelling in the vagina, which may be due to the insights that there is insufficient lubrication, lack of arousal or that the relationship linger enough. When there is pain, it is recommended to visit a gynecologist.

12. The method of “reverse”, by which a person withdraws the penis from the vagina before ejaculation, does not prevent pregnancy. Before the man ejaculates the erect penis gives out some amount of sperm, so the risk of pregnancy still exists.

13. If your period is late then after having had unprotected penetrations do a pregnancy test, but know that the pregnancy hormone is detected in urine Fifteen days after conception, or what is the same: the sexual act with possibility of pregnancy. If the test is performed before having a delay of at least one day may give a false negative. It is recommended to test with first morning urine since it will be a greater concentration of hormone. If your doubts persist and you feel that you might be pregnant visit a doctor.

14. The morning after pill can not prevent all pregnancies and is most effective if used within 24 hours, but can use up to 3 days after having unprotected sex, though their effectiveness will be reduced. If you have sex and there is risk of pregnancy may be taken the morning after pill, but be aware that their decision not to overindulge and do not prevent sexually transmitted diseases.