Eroticism in the couple’s sexuality – 1 December 30, 2009

Eroticism is a fundamental component of the couple’s sexuality, one can hardly keep burning desire and passion if lost or there is no eroticism in privacy.

It is often said that we have lost our desire, do not feel excited or not enough to reach orgasm and erectile problems become so common that it even consider normal.
Surely we have also heard complaints from either or both partners on what they are sporadic and unsatisfactory sexual encounters.

He blames the short time to fatigue after long working hours, childcare, housework, and countless economic concerns overwhelming problems.

It does not take talent to imagine that such divination sex totally devoid of eroticism and reduced to a contact almost without warning, as a kind of formality to comply rather than a time that is enjoyed.
It is conceivable that the lack of eroticism in couples is something that comes with time and not, many men and women in their eroticism never had sex, but others have maintained and fostered throughout the years as which gives them the enjoyment of a satisfactory sexuality.

Sexual Intercourse differences and similarities between men and women November 27, 2009

We always talk about the differences between men and women especially when it comes to the sexual sphere or in terms of relationships, and how each one lives and feels, this important aspect of your life.

For women, they are said to be more sensitive
While it is good to talk in generalities, men and women can be different in some respects, such as the thinking or actions, while in others, we should demystify certain stereotypes that we have imposed an early age. Thus, perhaps come to the conclusion that some aspects of the sexual plane, we are not so different.

If we speak then of intercourse and partner, the prevailing idea that man is always behind the sex, lives thinking “it” and shows affectionate only when he wants to have sex, while often the woman consents to sex to please her partner and to feel loved, in other words, we tend to think that men are more to sex and women more sensitive.

For men, they are said to be more sexual
But as shown in a study conducted at the University of Texas, men and women share the same motivations for sex.

As the attraction to another person, the desire for physical pleasure and because it was fun, repeated responses in both genders.
If we now speak of masturbation, it is often thought that men masturbate more than women, that’s at least as seen from the statistics, but the point is that women do not always admit it, for cultural and religious reasons, as in men, masturbation is more accepted.

However, for some time now, the female masturbation has come to be best viewed by society and today, more women would dare to speak of it and experience it without guilt.

In short, men and women have the same needs and desires; I just have the feeling, that many times in the case of us women can influence other constraints on the time of sex. What do you think? Are we the same or different?

Please post your views through the comments on the blog…

Kamasutra the three types of men November 6, 2009

After getting such a good response from my friends here on Kamasutra, I am bringing in one more post on this topic but this time its for men.

Classification of Kamasutra
The Kamasutra, in addition to sexual positions and varied range of topics provides a classification of men taking into account the size of his genitals. The author of the Kama Sutra, Vatsyana, divides them into 3 types, the hare man, horse man and bull riding man.
According to the measurement of genitalia was produced a profile that included not only the complexity, details of the face and hair but also the salient features of personality.

The three types of Kamasutra men
* Hare Man, in this type of man’s penis the erection would be about 6 fingers (measured at the time) and corresponds to a person of short stature, thighs, knees, feet and hands small but provided with the rest of the body. According to the Kamasutra hare man would have a rounded face with large eyes and small teeth. The personality would be that of a man who acts calmly and moderately but in the background is very ambitious.

* The bull man, the penis in erection as measured is 9 fingers and the Kama Sutra is for a big man, robust wide chest and abdomen flat. The face would stand out a broad forehead and large eyes. Bull man’s personality is characterized by anxiety, irritability and a violent temper.

* The horse man, the erect penis would have a measure of 12 fingers, according to Kamasutra physically be tall, athletic, muscular, hands and feet long and big teeth. The man’s personality would be passionate but lazy horse; women who attract this type are those of large and robust.

Men prefer blondes October 28, 2009

It is a myth or a reality

Men are attracted to the blonde women is not a myth. The explanation appears to date from earlier times when some deficiencies in food by women lose hair color and skin that made them different from other arousing the attraction of men.
Other theories about why men fall exhausted to the seduction of blondes say they are more innocent and fragile which arouse the male protective instinct.

As is the myth that men prefer blondes

The phrase that gentlemen prefer blondes title stems from a novel by American author Anita Loos in 1952 and made into a film next year starring Marilyn Monroe’s famous blonde.
There are those who say that the theories on the causes men to feel attraction towards blondes have nothing to do with the ancient theories, nor with the famous novel, but is a sexy woman stereotype suggested by the media, which are on magazine covers and voluptuous blonde women in erotic poses.
This would lead to men unconsciously associated with a blonde woman’s seduction and sexual pleasure.

“Being blonde is synonymous with beauty?”

Assuming that all blonde women are beautiful is like saying that is silly, another common myth, have actually conducted studies indicating that blondes have an IQ lower than other women.
Not all blondes are beautiful and can not generalize about their intelligence as well today all blonde women may be less than an hour, just use hair bleach.
There would have to change the myth and say that men are attracted to women with light hair or non-natural blonde.
The beauty is not skin color or hair, a beautiful woman achieve the attraction of men with any hair color, but if a woman wants to seduce and attract the attention, perhaps tinged with blonde may be a solution.

If you want to seduce, go and play October 16, 2009

Step closer

We are continuing the theme of seduction and how to seduce talk about the importance of physical contact when trying to conquer a woman or a man because it works the same way for both sexes.
The title says if you want to seduce come closer and touch, but this does not mean you get close and touch and out of the blue to someone you do not have to afford treatment that trust, this would produce an unpleasant reaction.

The advice is for people who already have some type of relationship either friendship, work, education and like a person but do not know how to attempt the seduction or conquest.

Importance of physical contact to seduce

As we approach we send our energy to another person, this will come through scent, body heat and chemicals that are activated in the contact.

We also know of the importance of pheromones, these microscopic particles that enter through the nose to make the brain send a reply of desire toward whom the stems, so the closer we who try to seduce the greater the chance achieved.

But nothing as effective as physical contact, this goes from the simple approach of any body part to friction with the skin.

Ways to seduce playing

If you do not know how to touch the person you want to seduce we’ll give some tips on ways to give more results.
Before I repeat the idea it should be clear that to establish a physical contact must have previously treated or knowledge, and within that treatment have subtly made the approaches.

Some of these suggestions and have taken on other issues or in response to comments, but is more practical to bring them together in one article.

* If there is not much confidence can try the item of clothing, for example: What a lovely blouse, shirt or whatever and I have a similar let me touch it to see if the same tissue and take advantage to play there, trying to is an area where fingers can slip into the skin.

* If you are female and want to seduce a man you should try to touch his neck, is a very sensitive area and the touch of your fingers can produce a reaction more than pleasant, there are various excuses for it, remove an imaginary thread, to accommodate the neck of the shirt or the classic “you have a loose button” that’s always first up, obviously.

* It is old as the watch or the ring, but always works: Let me see your watch, if you can touch the hand or wrist, the wrist is a very erogenous zone, especially in women.
With the excuse of seeing the ring can hold her hand and hold a few seconds, trying to touch the palm, more sensitivity on the back of the hand.

* Women who know how a man conquise always use the innocent kiss on the cheek in greeting, but with lipstick and then say: I left lipstick on his cheek and gently dried to remove his hand, approaching you as possible.
It also works to touch the cheek to remove a speck plush or nonexistent.

* When there is a little more confidence both men and women can talk about their ability to give a shoulder massage, hardly anyone denies a masajecito and who rubs shoulders must also perform a gentle massage on the neck, the more soft effect is greater will be achieved.

* Then there’s the classic melee, this is well known in offices or places of study, when the person you want to seduce is sitting at a desk in the back come to be interested in what you do and cheer on your chest carelessly about him or she.

* Also works with leg touch when both are sitting together or draw their arms, touching her hand when they are exchanging something; there are a thousand ways to make physical contact, try to find your own way when you get a chance.

* Finally, you have to try to repeat the contacts, once is not enough and besides you must accompany them with looks and smiles, the game of seduction is the sum of several elements and you must know to get up interest in that person you’re trying to conquer.

Seduction and more October 13, 2009

To seduce is to conquer

The seduction is a way to gain acceptance of others, please, attract and fall in love, as the evidence sought to achieve through seduction.
When it comes to seduction or associates the word seduce a woman trying to conquer a man, but there are many forms of seduction and exert all since childhood without even knowing it.
Marketing experts and those working in advertising know much about seduction and its purpose is to seduce the public with certain products.

First evaluated to be running the advertising sector and on that basis try to entice potential buyers, it is not a luxury car than a razor, in each case using different approaches but both have the same goal, awakening interest.

To seduce you take into account the presentation of the product to make it look attractive, but essentially it is you want to have it and that is the real seduction, which not only pleases you CREATE something or someone but the desire to possess.

The seduction of people

The example of how advertising tries to seduce us to buy products may appear to not have any points in common among people with seduction, but is closely related.

They seduce us different things but some of them attract the majority, such as appearance, charisma, success, power, intelligence and sense of humor.

Beauty is seductive

However one might say that what counts is inside people, no longer a phrase to look good, the first thing that draws the image, a pretty face and a good physique, then you’ll see the rest, but the first impact is visual.

At a meeting of several unknown persons in the eyes of women will be directed towards more physically attractive men and men’s eyes to the most beautiful woman.

The seduction of charisma

Then comes the charisma when it comes to two people, charisma can seduce more than beauty and this usually happens in most cases.
A charismatic person is someone who has a natural gift for seduction, many world leaders come to be by her charisma and drawing power over others rather than their talents or abilities.

Many argue that a charismatic person is enthusiastic, enterprising, has good sense of humor and has a strong personality, but I think someone may be charismatic and seduce without all those features, even without any of them.

The seduction of success

The famous and successful people have a special charm on most, look at people’s reactions to an actor, actress, singer, athlete or anyone who succeeds in his profession.

Not even to do something to entice with its success is more than enough for men and women are attracted.

Seduction of power

The power can seduce more than beauty or charisma, possibly his only rival is successful, people are attracted to those who have come to have power of any kind.

It may be from the small power of a section chief in the office, passing by those who direct a company to reach those who have real power over the world.
Women are those who feel more seduced by power, but there are also men who cause them attract a woman with power.

Tips to seduce October 12, 2009

Increase personal seduction

The seduction needs of security and self-esteem to exercise effect on others who do not value himself can hardly seduce someone. There are certain factors that make people feel seduced, such as physical appearance, charisma, success, fame or power. Most do not have all these attributes but can also be seductive or alluring and attractive.

As seduce

* No one is going to seduce others if you do not love yourself, if others see that you do not want to think that if you yourself or you do not want it is because you have no value.
One way to demonstrate self-esteem is taking care, not only in physical but also showing personality setting limits and saying no to anything that does not want.

* The sympathy and sense of humor are a good technique of seduction, we all like to be beside someone who makes us feel good, and entertain us. Instead we leave people with a bad temper and bad character. Therefore one of the weapons of seduction is already in your knowledge, smiles, treat others with kindness and approaches that will achieve more rejections.

* Do not be complaining, lamenting and telling real or imaginary misfortunes, is not causing shame that it manages to seduce, and nobody wants near him a loser. You should be optimistic, enthusiastic in your projects; the dynamic is one of the weapons of seduction that never even mentioned to be very effective.

* Do not be always available, someone who is willing to have all the time in the world to the other gives the idea that no self-interest, if you want to seduce you have other things in your life to which to devote time and interest.

* Try to be good at something, whether it is a profession, work, sports, art or whatever but put your passion in it, who excels in their area is attractive to others.

* The sensuality always work as seduction technique, you can express with clothing, looks, gestures and words, is not suitable display an explicit sensuality as it can lead to rejection, must be very subtle.

* Know that you can not seduce everyone you know, people will be attracted by your charm and others may be indifferent, if you intend to seduce someone in particular you will find it easier if you find out your preferences.

There are always more likely to relate to those who have things in common, it helps to know that he likes to learn things about them and use them as a matter of approach and conversation.

* Do not try to be someone else, be yourself always, if you’re not real, sooner or later people will notice and you will walk away, try to conquer others with your own essence, that you want for what you really are.

Seduce men dressed in red September 30, 2009

The red seduces men

If you want to entice more men than dress in red, this is not a myth but something scientifically proven red sexually attracts men.
You can tell it when at a party featuring a woman with a red dress and all the men turned to look, some will hesitate if they are with their partner at first, but those who are alone will see it as if hypnotized.
If that dress besides being red is adhered to the body than the seduction is complete, there will be no man who can resist.

Because the red make men mad again

The sexual attraction that produces the color red in males has a biological origin, this reaction is similar to what occurs in monkeys as the chimpanzee or baboon females because the red when they are ready to mate, therefore see that Color excites them.
Centuries of evolution have not changed that genetic memory and that is why a woman dressed in red is sexually attractive to most men.

Female to engage in seduction

Already have a scientific explanation, the art of seduction involves knowing everything and this is a fact to keep in mind.
If you are single and looking for partner comprise a red dress to wear in the first opportunity that comes your way.
If you’re married or a couple and things are a little dull looks of the shower with a red erotic lingerie and a couple of drops of perfume behind the ear lobe, you will not need anything more to seduce this man who until recently moments was asleep.

Kamasutra classification of women September 24, 2009

The Kamasutra is a book that not only describes a number of positions to make love but also talks about different topics related to sexuality, for example, classifies men and women based on the size of his/her genitals.

Vatsyayana, the author of Kamasutra classified women according to the depth of her yoni, the name given to the vagina and is physically described as a woman which corresponds, according to him, different vaginal depths.

The 3 types of women according to the Kamasutra

The Kamasutra classified women into three types which gives the names of animals, Male deer, elephant woman and horse woman.

The deer would be one woman whose vagina (yoni) is about 6 fingers deep; remember that these are measures of the time. Physically the woman doe has a delicate, childish features, small head, dark eyes, thick curly hair. According to the Kamasutra woman has such thick legs, especially thighs and arms rounded. As a personality trait emphasized that women doe is affectionate but jealous.

Women mare or horse woman has a depth of 9 vaginal fingers, the Kamasutra describes her physical appearance has highlighted that wide hips, big breasts and thick arms.
This kind of woman loves food and is very sleepy but be very affectionate with men.

The elephant woman has a vagina that measures 12 fingers deep, the Kamasutra is described as a black-haired woman with plump cheeks, thick lips, nose and long ears and thick. This kind of woman would be short arms with hands and feet round or approximate to that form. In this case it highlights that women elephant would have trouble achieving orgasm.

Aromatherapy to increase sexual desire September 18, 2009

As aromatherapy enhances sexuality

Experts have tested the effects of aromatherapy to improve health and the beneficial influence they have on the emotions and moods, but little is spoken of using aromatherapy to enhance sexuality. We know that smell is one of the senses that has great influence in deciding who attracts us, this happens because the substances emanating from persons entering the nose and into the brain that are perceived as unattractive or objectionable.

Aromatherapy scents that have to be perceived by smell, making the brain sends signals thus achieving planceteras encourage excitement. Essential oils help increase sexual desire either by placing scented candles in the room, adding just a little to your bath or doing each other a massage with a cream to the previously added a few drops of essential oil chosen.

Essential oils that increase the desire
Essential oils that cause more effects to enhance sex drive are:
* Ylang-Ylang
* Black pepper
* Sandalwood
* Benzoin
* Jazmin
* Rosa
* Vanilla
* Geranium
* Orange
* Neo
To enhance the Aromatherapy you can allow the various oils mixture, never more than three, to find a formula that works best for each couple.